Wednesday, August 15, 2012

Fashion Against Bullying! Finally I join it!

I've heard about FAB from other fashion bloggers, but I'm not yet understand what it mean. 'Till kak Echa post about it here and i'm totally understand. I decide to join it too because emmm.. yeah, I've been bullied too *snob snob*
Udah denger sih tentang FAB dari fashion blogger lain, tapi masih kurang ngeh, sampe akhirnya Kak Echa ngepost tentang fab juga dan akhirnya bener-bener paham FAB. Akhirnya ikutan juga.. emmm, yah, aku pernah di bully.

It started when I was in 6th grade of elementary school, continue to my junior high school, my shs too, even my neighbor's kids did it too. When I entered art group in my campus, it happened too. The worst was in 3rd grade of junior high school.
They mocked me, insulted me, fooled me, quipped me, intimidated me, and blah blah blah.. yes, a bully.
Actually,  I never ever want to tell about this bully story. I keep it alone. Cuz' I'm afraid, really afraid, that I might lose.. So, should I tell my story? Will somebody read it? LOL. It's gonna be a long story, if not, I'm not going to post it :D
Bermula dari kelas 6 SD, berlanjut ke SMP, SMA juga, dan bahkan anak-anak tetangga:| .. Waktu gabung sanggar di kampus, terjadi juga. Yang paling parah waktu kelas 3 SMP.
Mereka mengejek, menghina, membodoh-bodohi, menyindir, mengintimidasi, dan blah blah blah. A bully. Sebenarnya aku gak pernah ingin menceritakan atau membahas ini. I keep it alone. Cuz' I'm afraid, really afraid, that I might lose.. Haruskah aku menceritakannya? Ada yang ingin baca? LOL. Bakal jadi cerita yang panjang tentunya, jika tidak, I'm not going to post it :D

 

I don't want it happen to me again. It's enough to me. I've to be strong. I should against them.
I quite understand that I'm different, not a perfect human, and I realize I can be a better human then them even with my lack and flaw.
About the photo shoot, well, hmm, the background kinda strange right? It's my diary sheets! Gzzz, I've writing diary since elementary school, but I quit it when I entered Senior High School, but I still love to write a happy moment on my book or journal. I teared some of my diary sheets, I have so many diary books and it full with my writing and its colorful! I got the inspiration from my senior high school friend, Mira, she used magazine as her background photo shoot. XD
Aku tidak ingin ini terjadi lagi padaku. Cukup. I've to be strong. I should against them.
I quite understand that I'm different, not a perfect human, and I realize I can be a better human then them even with my lack and flaw.
Tentang photo shootnya, backgroundnya agak aneh kan? Itu dari lembaran-lembaran diaryku! Gzzz, aku udah nulis diary dari SD, tapi udah berhenti pas SMA. Walaupun masih nulis beberapa momen di buku. Inspirasi backgroundnya dari Mira, temen sekelas waktu SMA, dia pake kertas majalah buat background foto-fotonya. XD

Join FAB like me here! This is my FAB.
"Enough to get bullied. We've to be strong. We should fight back and don't let them bully us again!" - Adeayu 


wardrobe :White Veil, White tee (diy) "Ayuyu", Grey big shirt - my brother, Grey skirt (diy) "Ayuyu", mint jeans "Zara", White Sneaker "Gosh".

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  1. Great post, very informative! Bullying is terrible and it affects so many kids now. Great that you joined. If you get a chance, please check out my blog, would love to know what you think.
    http://glambrownie.com

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    1. yes an informative one! we should against bullying and stop it now. It's more and more serious.Thank you ;)
      Sure I'll visit yours.

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  2. gayanya kereen :D ajarin dong kakak

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    1. ahahaha.. gayanya kaya gitu keren? gak ah, itu biasa aja.. hihihi

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    2. keren loh kakak, aku naksir kemejanya :3

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    3. makasih Aseh :*
      hahaha kemeja kegedean gitu, itu punya kakak cowonya kakak..

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  3. just live as what you want, don't you ever think that haters put more attention to you?

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    1. Yes I am Andu. I should and I'll try :D
      Thank you for cheer me up ;)

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    1. but people who bully me see it was my lack :(

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  5. gosh I love it!love your look!
    wanna follow each other?yes no?
    uuum..
    cheers!

    http://fashion-babel.blogspot.com

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    1. Really??
      Thank you! Yes I'll follow you soon~

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  6. wow this is the first blogger with a Muslim veil I've ever encountered, just fabulous how you express yourself through fashion and religion, I'm joining FAB too, with SbyVogue, will photograph very soon

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    1. WOW! I'm surprised! Really?? First one?
      There are so many muslim fashion blogger, and I'm still learning :D

      Hehehe, thank you so much for your comment..
      I'm waiting for your FAB post, I can't wait! I'm sure you'll have a really unusual unique photograph with FAB theme!

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  7. Thanks for left a comment on my post ;)
    I do love your fashion sense too!

    Love, Ina xoxo
    http://inalathifahs.blogspot.com

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    1. Welcome dear ;)
      hehehe, but you're more than me!

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  8. well whatever you were bullied for, the best way to get back to them is to lead a happy life :)

    nice tee, btw :)
    love the fringe!

    <3
    The Sweetest Escape 

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    1. Yea! you're right! Lead a happy life, show them even if I've been bullied I can show my best!
      Thank you Stevia ;)

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    1. Thanks dear ;)
      I made it myself btw.

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  10. interesting post, it's good to know that :)
    would you like to follow each other?
    A
    xx
    http://epiquemoi.blogspot.com.au

    Win $300 to spend on Boticca on my blog!

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    1. thank you Anthea Lau :)
      I'll check your blog ;)

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  11. eh, boleh make bahasa Indonesia gak? bener mbak, kita kudu ngelawan segala jenis bullying, termasuk didalamnya cyber bullying. dan tentunya kita jangan sampee jadi pelaku, sengaja ataupun tidak. hehe

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